The M3 System is a kinder gentler approach to getting over a break-up and it works. A typical guide will often claim to expose the “psychological secrets” of women (or men) that you need to explore to get her crawling back to you. Basically these guides offer ways to lie and manipulate your way back into someones arms. These methods are not a strong foundation for a long lasting reunited relationship. The M3 System is refreshing in that it does not focus on these head games (there is some though).
The main focus of the M3 System is to help the person who bought it to get their confidence back by overcoming some of the toxic emotions that come with a break-up. A lot of the M3 system works on getting rid of the feelings of anger, rejection and loneliness that happen after you have been dumped. This is all very refreshing to read. The only downside to this approach is that the author, Michael Griswold, is not a expert per se. He is not a shrink or a therapist of sorts but just a regular guy who is building upon his own experience when he went through a series of bad break-ups. You may initially be skeptical of his approach until you start to implement it and then most of your doubts will fade as you start to feel better.
The M3 System does eventually dip its toe into the typical head games you will read about in most guides but not to the level where it is encouraging you to lie to your ex. The tactics it encourages are much more benign and relate to when and how you should initiate contact and what you should say. The reason why it does not need to resort to these tactics is because of all the work a person who uses the M3 System will have done prior to contacting them. They will not be angry and full of self pity. They will have an easy demeanor and be full of self confidence (not arrogance) and all these traits will go a long way to having your ex being attracted to you. They will see the person they originally fell for and not the person they dumped.. Anyway there is no better way to ruin your chances of getting back with your ex than to start lying out of the gate or trying to be something your not so the M3 System steers you clear of this.